Monday, January 09, 2006

Sunday Blues

Sunday morning, i got up at 10am, ... in an upbeat mood..inspite of being kicked out of bed by my dad..my dream was a nightmare, so it was better to get up...Upbeat coz I was gonna meet someone...someone special...in the afternoon...
My upbeat mood took a beating when I got an SMS saying she wudnt b able to make it today...
I sat on the net as usual, dunno for what...I met my friend, the one person I can talk to about anything in the world...but who herself feels uncomfortable with me...we started talking, and as usual one thing led to another and we ended up doing wat we do best...argue , fight etc., etc...when we were done, it was past 130 pm, and I hadnt even brushed my teeth...no wonder I heard my mom n dad yelling at me in the background...by 2pm I was done with all my 'morning' chores...i had a good lunch ...sunday so chicken as usual...very well prepared I must say...im proud of the only woman in my life till now...my mother...
I wanted to do something wild...i sat on the net again....just then the bulb inside me lit...i remembered a song I heard the previous day on FM...its called 'the sunscreen song'...searched for it in google...got it!!!...the lyrics...the best part of this song is the lyrics...its advice a man gives dunno for wat n to whom....but the advice is hilarious...Let me share with u the lyrics....
Ladies and gentlemen of the class of '97
Wear sunscreen. If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it.
The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, ............ whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.
I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth.
Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded.
But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.
You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future.
Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.
The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
Sing.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts.
Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy.
Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind.
The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults.
If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.
Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life.
The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives.
Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't.
Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't.
Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary.
Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either.
Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body.
Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it.
It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.
Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.
"brother and sister together we'll make it through,
someday a spirit will take you and guide you there
I know that you're hurting but i've been waiting there for you
and I'll be there just helping you out
whenever I can"
Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good.
Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on.
Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard.
Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths:
Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old.
And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders.
Respect your elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you.
Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it.
Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.
But trust me on the sunscreen.

"brother and sister together we'll make it through,
someday a spirit will take you and guide you there
I know that you're hurting but I've been waiting there for you
and I'll be there just helping you out
whenever I can
everybody's free
everybody's free
to feel good"
- Baz Luhrman.
Wild , isnt it...I downloaded the MP3...When I listened to it, the lyrics that poured out of the speaker were different...bolder...wilder...the above lyrics are the class of 97...while wat I downloaded is the class of 98...
Watevaa...my Sunday was made...Evening I took my mom n uncle n aunt n sis to the mall...we had a lot of fun...about that later....now its past bedtime... :)...n b4 the animal in my parents wake up...i gotta sleep...